Hawai’i: Getting Out of Town
I went to Pūpūkea for a few days to write. I love the cooler climate and the silence. It’s always good to get out of town. When you tell people you […]
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BREAK: Marriage and Divorce and How to View a Sculpture
How to View a Sculpture I would like to explain a few ways that we can think about the practice of observation that might help us come to terms with
BREAK: Learning to say NO
I think the most important lesson I acquired from my divorce was learning to say NO. NO, I do not want to be respected in this way. NO, I do
BREAK: Divorce and Voice
When writers, readers, and critics speak of a writer’s voice they are referencing the writer’s chosen words that reveal the writer’s self, how she perceives and moves in the world.
BREAK: Don’t Hold Your Breath
When you are divorcing you are scrambling to check off everything you need to do to get to the next step. You understand there’s a safe harbor out there beyond
BREAK: Choosing a Therapist
A therapist can be an important person in your life during divorce. I’m not going to discuss why one refuses therapy. Frankly, I can’t get into that. You have to